Sunday, November 14, 2010

Opening the Lines of Communication

Communication is a key for the success of any sales person or leader. How you keep your customers, colleagues and staff informed will determine how easily you get things done. Communication comes in many ways. 

I just had a call with a colleague and he said: It was interesting what was said at our meeting and more interesting what wasn't said. We communicate by what we say (or don't say), the way we say things, the body language displayed, and how we communicate the written word.

How do you communicate?

How you communicate tells a lot about how you treat people and the expectation you have. As a leader you need to create a well thought out strategy and then tell your team on a regular and consistent basis what is happening and what you expect. You send e-mails, you communicate in person in meetings, one-on-one and on your intranet. 

My experience is that you can't communicate too often. Also your actions communicate a whole other set of messages. So make sure your actions align with your written and verbal messages.

As a rep how are you communicating with your customers? What information do you send them? How do you let them know when something is wrong and how do you communicate successes. 

Do you send thank you cards; do you keep your customer aware of all the issues going on? When was the last time you had a formal review with your top customers to share what has happened in the last six months and what is expected to happen in the next six months? 

When there is a change in delivery or fulfillment of the deal how do you communicate this to the customer? How does your organization connect with customers? While you don't control this you need to understand what it means to your customers.

How do you communicate with your team? Do you keep everyone connected and up to date. When there is an issue to be dealt with -- where are you? How do people know what is expected of them. Do you have regular and productive meetings with your team to update and make sure you have created the appropriate message? Do you take responsibility for your results and interpretation of your messages? When you take responsibility your communication and insights become clear and focused.

What is your communication strategy?

You need to have a strategy that is formal and informal and communicates what you need to have heard, read and understood. Human beings need to hear a new message as many as six or seven times before they "get" it. So if you communicate a new idea or concept once -- good luck at getting buy in and understanding. This can be frustrating, however, the aggravation from not communicating will be far more frustrating and divisive with your team.

So if you need to communicate a new message six or seven times how do you propose to make that happen. You can send a written document, an e-mail, marketing materials, verbal communication in speeches and meetings. How do you mix it up and keep the message the same and focused on what you want to accomplish.

One of the reasons customers and team members get confused is that your communication is non-existent, is inconsistent or the message changes each month to what staff fondly refer to as "the flavor of the month"! You want to be consistently consistent.

Your communication must be honest, truthful and communicated by you. It must sound like you and be believable. So write it, review it, think about and then say it out loud. Do you believe what you are saying? If you have someone else writing and communicating for you your team and customers will not get behind the message -- they won't trust you.

What works for you?

We all communicate differently and in different manners. Know what works for you. Barrack Obama is a great orator -- George Bush, not so much. How is your written word? Is your written message efficient and to the point -- or is it all over the place. 

Are you best in one-to-one meetings? When you are in a meeting - what is the goal of your communications? If you are consistent and communicate the same message over and over again, people begin to get behind you and your mission.

Remember -- Be careful what you ask for, you just might get it.

Sayers Says...

What is your communication style? Are you being consistently consistent? Are your team and customers behind your message? What is your communication strategy? What are you saying and not saying? Do you believe what you are communicating?
Share with me what communication format works best for you.
Open the lines of communication...


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About the Author:
Bill Sayers speaks, coaches, leads education sessions and provides management consulting services to a variety of companies. Bill has been praised for his leadership, common-sense approach and ability to inspire sales people to new levels of success. His easy manner and strong public-speaking skills make him an engaging facilitator. Bill connects with senior executives and sales professionals alike, as he shares his real-life experiences and provides the appropriate tools and strategies for success in today's business world.
Bill's book Funnels & Forecasts -- The Great Game of Sales is available on Amazon. 

Funnels & Forecasts: The Great Game of SalesHe has been a professor at George Brown College teaching Personal Selling Skills to the Sports and Event Marketing Graduate Program, and is on the faculty of Canadian Professional Sales Association and Canadian Management Centre.

To receive our free "How are you Playing The Game" Scorecard and a 45 minute one-on-one session with Bill Sayers, email: info@TheSayersGroup.com or visit: http://www.TheSayersGroup.com.

 

Monday, November 08, 2010

The Key to Preparing for Competition

The Key to Preparing for Competition by Denis Waitley

Self-knowledge has always been the key to preparing for competition. Knowledge of your attributes, abilities, interests, strengths, weaknesses and traits is essential to riding the front end of the wave of change into the new century. To fully assess your own talents, realize that studies confirm that what we love and do well as children continues as our latent or manifest talent as adults.

Examination of your weekend or evening interests might reveal a gem of potential you can apply to your vocation. I strongly suggest you don’t unthinkingly relegate what you love to do for yourself solely to hobbies. You might make it, or at least integrate it into, your life’s work.

The acquisition of knowledge, which is the new global power, is a lifelong experience, not a collection of facts or skills. Not long ago, what you learned in school was largely all you needed to learn to secure a career. With knowledge expanding exponentially, this is no longer true. Hundreds of scientific papers are published daily.

Every 30 seconds, some new technological company produces yet another innovation. Your formal education has a very short shelf life. Lifelong learning, once a luxury for the few, has become absolutely vital to continued success. Continue gaining expertise and avoid thinking like an expert.

Action Idea: An excellent benchmarking exercise is to spend a weekend with key associates or family members and dust off your childhood memories. Remember what you really enjoyed and wanted to do most as a child. The next activity in assessing your interests is considering your current ones. What do you most enjoy after work? What do you most want to do on weekends and vacations? What are your hobbies? Can you bring more of what you enjoy into your business life?

Action Step: Increase your reading, writing and vocabulary proficiency. One of the most important qualities of successful leaders is an ability to express thoughts and knowledge. Research by management and human resource experts confirms that no matter what the field of employment, people with large vocabularies – those able to speak clearly and concisely, using simple as well as descriptive words – are best at accomplishing their goals. Well chosen, carefully considered words can close the sale, negotiate the raise, enhance relationships and change destinies.

In a world of e-mail, fax dispersal, voice mail, sound bites, concise reports, business plans and meeting briefs, the individuals who can articulate their goals, substantiate their claims and support their visions will own the future. In the 21st century, literacy will be the major difference between the haves and have-nots.

Why do fewer than 10 percent of the public buy and read nonfiction books? One reason is that many would rather get home than get ahead. They are motivated to get by and get pulled along by the company, the economy or the government.

Another reason is that many individuals believe that information found in books, computer programs and training sessions has no value in the business world. How self-deluding!

As the new tools of productivity become the Internet, the DVD, direct digital download of text, audio and video, and the combination of the interactive computer with telecommunications, the people who know how to control the new technologies will acquire power, while those who thought that education ends with the diploma are destined for low-paying, low-satisfaction jobs. In almost the blink of an eye, our society has passed from the industrial age to the knowledge era.

Increase your reading by 100 percent. Decrease your television watching, and that of any children in your family, by 50 percent. Surf the Internet and subscribe to book summaries, or download free chapters from different sources. By reading book summaries, you can gain the essence of all the top business books in a very brief period of time.

Action Idea: Read at least one book each month, and listen to at least one additional audio book or education series during your commute or downtime.

-- Denis Waitley


Communication On The Internet 
Web Advertising: New Forms Of Communication On The Internet (Pragmatics and Beyond. New Series)PRSA Professional "On-Demand" PresentationsInternet Politics: States, Citizens, and New Communication TechnologiesInternet Multimedia Communications Using SIP: A Modern Approach Including Java® Practice (The Morgan Kaufmann Series in Networking)Computer Mediated CommunicationData, Network, & Internet Communications Technology

Monday, September 20, 2010

Sex Transmutation

I start each of these review email with a few paragraphs of "Introduction". If you've gotten the past reports, just skip the intro and go straight to the Review section.

Note: All past reviews are now archived at

... so you can get current on where we are now in these capsulized chapter reviews.

INTRODUCTION

I'm involved in a MasterMind group that is creating a Home Study "Think and Grow Rich" Course where...

Every Wednesday (began Wed the 5th of Jan) and for 8 successive Wednesdays, the MasterMind group will be digging into a different chapter or chapters of the book via private teleconferences.

These teleconferences are being recorded and will become the backbone of the Home Study Course.

I'll be reporting to you each Thursday, following the Wednesday teleconference about the highlights of what the MasterMind group discussed.

Understand that these private teleconferences are open only to the investors in the product (Home Study Course) and a few invited "specialists" and therefore I'm writing these brief reports to keep you "in the loop".

You may find all previous reports archived at:

This session of the MasterMind Group started by discussing the virtues of what a MasterMind Group is and how and why it works.

Napoleon refers to the MasterMind as "The Driving Force".

He goes on the say that PLANS are inert and use- less without sufficient POWER to translate them into ACTION.

POWER may be defined as "organized and intelligently directed KNOWLEDGE." Makes sense.

Hill even declares, "No individual may have great power without availing him (or her) self of the "Master Mind"".

So you can't get where you're going... at least all the way to "great power"... without interfacing with others.

And, you know, I agree with that.

My experience with MasterMind groups is that a group of like-minded people (same interest topic) get together. Most of mine have been through phone meetings.

The first meeting is organizational, and then the good ideas start to flow. Over the next few months, uninspired people start to fall out...

and the group seems to dissipates.

BUT I ALWAYS come away with having bonded with one or two individuals that become longlasting members of my PERSONAL MASTERMIND (as I call it).

The relationships I have with these close businss friends ... well you just can't put a value on it.

You'll always get an honest answer (a unique power of a MasterMind), they are always there for you .. and WHY?

Because you're always there for them!

And now on to the most misunderstood chapter in the book... Sex Transmutation!

The premise of this chapter is that, if you harness your natural energies - the sexual drive being the MOST powerful of human desires - to express yourself, you can accomplish great things.

The meaning of the word "transmute" is, in simple language, "the changing, or transferring of one element, or form of energy, into another.

Sex Transmutation means the switching of the mind from thoughts of physical expression (having sex, flirting, etc.) to thoughts of some other nature.

Napoleon goes into much detail about the importance of a woman to a man (and man to a woman) and sites many famous examples.

My wife knows when I do things to become more successful.. yes, I'm doing it for me... but I'm more deeply doing it for "us".

I think that's the connective power that he's talking about.

Hill identifies Sexual Energy as the most powerful of human energies, followed by Love (which Hill says "moderates and helps direct" sexual energy)...

... and 8 others energy sources.. including alcohol!

In order to connect with the higher consciousness, you need to harness this energy.

In essence, Napoleon wants you to grab the energy from these sources (sex energy being the most power- ful) and transmute it into energy directed to create your desired reality.

You see, it's energy that causes action... thought action then concrete reality.

About 20 years ago, I took an "advanced" sales course that likened a prospects emotions during a sales presentation to a pendulum...

and the salesperson was instructed to get the pendulum swinging (create energy)... and it didn't matter if it was swinging "away" from the sale.

The only thing that mattered was that you got the pendulum swinging and the energy going.

So, I'd approach a prospect and they always seemed to just sit there... and they wanted me to dump information on them.

Well, I'd get the pendulum going with..."Now that I'm here, I realize this product may not be for you..."

Silence.

The prospect would say something like, "You called this meeting with me and you don't think I can use your product?!" ... with an angry look.

Mission accomplished... pendulum moving.

Then I'd say... "Well, let me ask you..." and I'd go on building the energy and swinging the pendulum... evenutally ... my way!

So, I can see Napoleon's point on energy and the transmutation of such. I was taking "anger energy" and transmuting it to "buying energy".

I guess, the notions of sparking energy in combination with my understanding of the importance of tapping into the "sixth sense" shows up in some of my company's products today...

Like the "Developing a Closing Instinct" mental training session in our SalesMind Software, which helps sales pros to get more of their desired outcome - sales!

Anyway, this Sex Transmutation chapter is one I'll definitely come back to, and probably, so should you.

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Keep reviewing, a couple of times a day, your Written Statement of your Desire for Money.


Norman Hallett
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